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Noelle
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    Totally agree with this!

    Ideally, guy asks first – and in real life that usually is best. Online if a guy isn’t contacting gals first he’s going to miss out on a ton of nice girls who won’t or think they can’t reach out first. It goes against classic male/female roles to do that, so if you want a traditional gal, you probably shouldn’t wait for her to notice and like your profile.

    That said, I have learned and really do think it’s a good idea for a woman to let a guy know if she REALLY likes him. Drop the hanky, if you will. And then let him do whatever he wants. No bugging him. I know of several great marriages that started because a gal wrote a man a letter. Online, it’s even more important to like a guy’s profile/view or message him if you are interested. Otherwise he may never see your profile.

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